Saturday, 1 March 2025
Week 7 Saturday (Year 1)
Friday, 28 February 2025
Week 7 Friday (Year 1)
Readings: Sirach 6.5-17; Psalm 119; Mark 10.1-12
Today's first reading is one of the most beautiful celebrations of friendship in the Bible. A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter, a treasure, beyond price, a life-saving remedy. Aristotle says that nobody can live without friends and Thomas Aquinas knows that one of the best remedies for depression is to talk with a friend.
The psalm is a celebration of God's law which, coming after this priase of friendship, we can take as God spelling out for his friends the terms of the friendship he wants to have with them. We might feel that friendship should be unconditional rather contractual but we all know, and the first reading speaks of this also, that friendship needs to be worked at, it needs to be reciprocal and it needs to respect always the common ground shared between the friends.
Like all human realities, friendship will be tested by the things that happen in the course of a lifetime. Its survival is not guaranteed which is why, as long as it endures, a friendship is a great grace, a gift of God.
No friendship needs these things more than marriage because it is the highest form of friendship found among human beings. This is why, from all the relationships of love, friendship and companionship that we experience, it is marriage that serves best as an image of God's friendship with his people, of Christ's friendship with his body, the Church, the community of his disciples. It is why marriage is a sacrament of the Church.
The friend who is a treasure and a life-saving remedy is the one who is faithful. This means persevering through thick and thin, staying with the friend no matter what comes along. Once again it requires reciprocity, that my friend will be ready to engage with me in doing what is needed to keep our friendship alive: taking initiatives, being patient, listening well, revisiting often the common ground on which the friendship is built.
And no ground of friendship is better than a shared love of Christ. One of the great theologians of friendship, Aelred of Rievaulx, says that there are always three in a faithful friendship, the two friends and Christ who holds them together. So too for marriage, as for any enduring friendship.
Let us pray for our friends today and thank God for the faithful friendships he has given us. Let us remember friends who have drifted away or from whom we have drifted away, thanking God for what we once meant for each other and praying for their health and their happiness.
Thursday, 27 February 2025
Week 7 Thursday (Year 1)
Readings: Sirach 5.1-8; Psalm 1; Mark 9.41-50
The virtue of hope is highlighted in this Holy Year for which Pope Francis chose the theme 'Pilgrims of Hope'. Life is a journey towards a destination for which we hope. The destination is attained with the help of the one for whom we are hoping. 'To hope for God from God' is a neat summary of what this theological virtue is about.
There are two ways of falling away from hope. One is despair which means giving up hope. Feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, depression, sadness, meaninglessness, feeling lost - these are not the full blown vice of despair which, like all sins, requires a conscious and intentional choice. Even suicide, I imagine, expresses a kind of misguided hope that things will be better after it than they are before.
As 'pilgrims of hope' we are called to be witnesses of hope, ready to support as best we can those who are experiencing these kinds of darkness and distress.
The opposite vice to despair is presumption and the readings at Mass today are warnings against this in particular. Our wealth or power are not enough to rely on, the first reading says, and even a certain way of trusting in God can be presumptuous. His mercy is real and infinite, of course, but our sins are also serious and our hope cannot mean overlooking the seriousness of them and their consequences. 'Delay not your conversion to the Lord', the reading says, not just in a finger-wagging kind of way but in order that we might begin to live our lives in as wholesome and as fruitful a way as is possible.
Likewise with the gospel reading. A cup of water given in the name of Christ is enough to ensure our salvation. But such kindness is to be accompanied by a conversion to right living which is determined and radical. Whatever in our lives is holding us back on our journey towards our destination is to be eliminated - hand, foot, eye, it does not matter. We are salt, Jesus says, and must strive to keep our 'saltiness'.
The gift or virtue of hope enables us to walk steadily between these two temptations of despair and presumption. It gives us the freedom to live joyfully and confidently, because God is good and is faithful to his promises. At the same time we are strengthened to live intentionally and seriously. God's love salts us with fire, Jesus says, it purifies, heals, strengthens and preserves us on the journey.
Wednesday, 26 February 2025
Week 7 Wednesday (Year 1)
Tuesday, 25 February 2025
Week 7 Tuesday (Year 1)
Monday, 24 February 2025
Week 7 Monday (Year 1)
Sunday, 23 February 2025
Week 7 Sunday (Year C)
Readings: 1 Samuel 26.2,7-9,12-13,22-23; Psalm 102; 1 Corinthians 15.45-49; Luke 6.27-38
David’s restraint, as recorded in the first reading, is striking. Saul, who is seeking to kill David, falls into his hands, and yet David does not kill him. This is because he is the Lord’s anointed. There is a third point of reference apart from David and Saul. This third point of reference is God, towards whom David has certain responsibilities that prevent him acting against Saul. He cannot live as if God did not exist, or as if Saul had nothing to do with God or God with Saul.
The teaching of Jesus about turning the other cheek, giving to everyone who begs from you, lending while expecting nothing in return – all this can seem idealistic and quite unrealistic for the rough and tumble world in which we live. Jesus is here sketching the ‘ethics of the kingdom’: where God’s love reigns people will find themselves living in these ways. But, as long as we are living in a fallen and struggling world, many feel that such a way of living remains an ideal beyond human ability. And it is. In ourselves we find the ‘first Adam’ and the ‘last Adam’, the old man and the new man, and the struggle between them is never fully resolved in this life.
But when we love, we find ourselves able to live in the way Jesus asks. Where we like people, are fond of them, and want to remain in friendship with them, we find ourselves turning the other cheek, giving whenever we are asked, and lending without expecting anything in return. It is only where we ‘fall out of love’, or lower our sights from the goal of loving, that we begin to count the cost, measure what we give in terms of what others are prepared to give, and then begin to judge and condemn others.
We are ‘of dust’ and we are ‘of heaven’ and are pulled around as a result. We must look above and beyond the particular situations and relationships in which we find ourselves, to God and His way of loving. God is our ‘third point of reference’. From God we experience forgiveness for ourselves and learn how to be merciful to others.
Saturday, 25 May 2024
Week 07 Saturday (Year 2)
Readings: James 5.13-20; Psalm 141; Mark 10.13-16
Learning to receive is key to any successful human relationship. This seems to be the message of what Jesus has to say about children. He speaks of receiving them and of receiving like they do. They have no claim to power or status to defend or to confuse the purity of their receiving. Creation itself is such a gift if only we could restore in ourselves the wonder of a child's soul and receive it with the same wonder and joy with which Adam received Eve: At last! Bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.
Would that we could bring the same cry of joy into our relationship with Christ. He is flesh of our flesh and bone of our bones. And we can imagine him saying the same thing to us: you are flesh of my flesh and bone of my bones. This is the great grace, the remarkable gift of his coming among us, to be of the same flesh and blood as ourselves. It is a kind of fraternity, even of marriage. And because it is, first and last, a matter of grace or gift, entry into the kingdom he establishes can only be by way of receptivity. This is why it is a kingdom that can only be entered when we become like little children.
For Jesus the children are not unreasonable creatures or objects to be trained, they are persons who receive good things with spontaneity and gratitude, with joy and wonder. By receiving children in the way Jesus did - acknowledging them, respecting them, blessing them - we learn from them how to receive. And so we are made ready for the greater gifts, made ready to join Christ in his kingdom.
Friday, 24 May 2024
Week 07 Friday (Year 2)
Readings: James 5.9-12; Psalm 103; Mark 10.1-12
The image of God is male and female: this is what we learn from the first two chapters of the Book of Genesis. She is equal to him. In fact she is in a way superior for she is made not from soil, as the man himself was, but from soil already inbreathed by God's spirit - the living man. Nothing made directly from the soil is satisfactory to the man until the woman appears who is made from him. So she is other than him and at the same time his equal: this at last, he says, is bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh. Between them, therefore, friendship and love are possible, things not possible for the man with any of the other creatures that have been made.
The image of God that the man and the woman constitute together is seen in one way in their shared fertility. Together they generate offspring as God himself (we will learn this much later) generates a Son. They are the image of God also in the possibility of love between persons who are other than but equal to each other. Both terms are important, 'other' and 'equal', though it is sometimes difficult to hold them together in a proper way.
Everybody knows the anxieties about marriage that are raised by the disciples. There is the ideal and there is the reality. Already within the New Testament the question of divorce comes up and whether the ideal reaffirmed by Jesus is too difficult for some, perhaps most, people. 'Hardness of heart' afflicts all human relationships and marriage is no exception. In fact because of the intimacy involved, sensitivity is heightened and the consequences of a hardening of the heart is therefore all the greater.
At the beginning, it was not so, Jesus says. In the future, it will not be so. But what about now, the present moment, in these present conditions of human life? Learning to receive is key in every relationship and it is what Jesus will speak about tomorrow, when he moves on to speak about children.
For now we can say this: nobody enters properly into marriage with the thought that it might end. The desire and the intention is that it will continue forever. If somebody were to enter into marriage without that desire or without that intention then it would not be a marriage at all. But still things can go wrong. People may be incapable of living up to the responsibilities that go with it. People may be lacking in understanding or freedom at the moment in which they enter into it. People may experience of a hardening of their heart for one reason or another, a situation that makes it seem impossible for them to continue in relationship with another person.
So it is, and the Church seeks to respond to such situations with justice and compassion, while continuing to promote the gift of marriage which, Jesus says, is the desire and intention of God for his human creatures.
Sunday, 19 February 2012
Week 07 (Year B) Sunday
The first reading encourages us to regard the paralysed man in the gospel as 'Israel', and so as the Church, ourselves. This is - we are - the burden God has chosen to carry. And both are weary: God is tired carrying Israel and Israel is tired being carried. Where might fresh energy and joy come from? Cardinal Ratzinger had much to say about this twelve years ago or so: a tiredness in the Church and with the Church, a tiredness in life - in this culture of leisure in which so many people are tired. Perhaps things are different now. But God can 'do a new thing', Isaiah says, and the paralysed man getting up immediately, taking up his bed, and walking home in front of everybody, is a great example of new energy and joy.
One commentator suggests that the four men who carried the paralytic into the presence of Jesus were Peter, Andrew, James, and John, fresh from their call to follow him and to be with him in his work. When we are told that Jesus is 'at home' it is Peter's house that he has made his home. This suggestion may be fanciful but there are others that cannot be denied: the man has to be carried by other people into the presence of Jesus, and seeing their faith (not his) Jesus begins to act. We are never isolated individuals in this relating to God, but belong to a people, depend on a community.